Written by
Sabina
When a loved one has passed away, you may be looking for a way to express your warm feelings for that person and make your love, respect and sense of loss visible. Flowers give shape to those feelings. A memorial place, such as a grave or an urn, calls for flowers that are not only beautiful, but also meaningful and long-lasting. Read on and discover which flowers are most suitable!
Flowers for a memorial place
Below you’ll find strong flowers known for their long-lasting quality and meaningful symbolism. This makes them particularly suitable for a grave or by an urn. Ultimately, though, there is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ choice, as the most beautiful flower is the one that suits the person you are remembering.
The most beautiful flower is the one that suits the deceased: a favourite flower, a favourite colour, a flower that reflects your bond or brings back cherished memories.
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Anthurium
The heart-shaped Anthurium symbolises eternal love, strength and dignity. Anthurium has a sturdy, glossy and colourful spathe and lasts exceptionally well in a vase (up to an impressive 3 weeks!*).
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Roses
Roses are the universal symbol of love. They are elegant, timeless and powerful. The colour of Roses you choose to remember someone depends on what you want to express. Yellow Roses symbolise friendship, while red Roses represent deep love and connection. Roses last 1 to 2 weeks in a vase*, and with these smart tips you can keep them looking their best for as long as possible.
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Chrysanthemums
In many countries, Chrysanthemums are seen as the remembrance flower. These strong (and beautiful!) flowers symbolise respect, happiness and lasting remembrance. Chrysanthemums can last up to 3 weeks in a vase.*
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Carnations
Although the exact symbolism varies by colour, Carnations generally symbolise love, passion, loyalty and devotion. In addition to this rich symbolism, the flowers have a soft, gentle appearance and remain beautiful in a vase for around 2 to 3 weeks.*
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Dried flowers
Would you like to create a lasting tribute at the memorial place? Then choose dried flowers, opt for fresh flowers that remain beautiful as they dry, or create a stunning arrangement using dried flowers. Without water, dried flowers can stay beautiful for months, sometimes even years.*
What are suitable funeral flowers?
Flowers don’t only play an important role when remembering someone at a specific place, such as a grave or urn. They also offer comfort before and during a funeral. They are a sign of respect and sympathy, provide solace, and express what words sometimes cannot. Discover 10 suitable funeral flowers to give during a funeral, including their symbolism.
Curious about funeral flowers around the world? Discover the rituals and symbolism of flowers in different religions and cultures.
Want to learn more about flowers, mourning and symbolism?
Would you like to read more about flowers with meaningful symbolism that are suitable for expressing sympathy and grief? Take a look here. You’ll find, for example, more information on which flowers are suitable for wishing someone strength, examples of a funeral spray and funeral bouquet, and ideas for what you can do with flowers in memory of a loved one.
*Disclaimer: please note that the stated vase life applies when flowers are placed in a sheltered spot, such as in a niche, under a canopy or indoors by an urn. When placed outdoors on a grave, flowers are exposed to sun, rain, wind and temperature changes, meaning they will not stay beautiful for as long.
